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What's cooking: the dishes my family asks for

Cooking is how I switch off. A short tour of the things my kitchen is known for — and the ones the boys actually request.

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If the garden is where I find patience, the kitchen is where I find off. Cooking is the one thing that fully unplugs me from a screen — hands busy, no notifications, and a result you can actually taste at the end of it.

Over the years a few things have become "mine" — the dishes people in my house request by name:

  • Chhole bhature — the weekend showstopper, the one that turns an ordinary Sunday into an occasion.
  • Anything with paneer — the most forgiving ingredient I know, and a reliable way to make everyone happy at once.
  • Rajma chawal and curry chawal — comfort food that tastes like home no matter how the day went.

And then there are the kids' picks. Ask the boys and the answer is usually simpler: a good sandwich, made the way they like it, beats anything fancy I could attempt.

I'm not a cook who measures. I cook the way I learned — by smell, by memory, by feeding people I love and watching the plates come back empty.

Written by Roma Bisht in Bengaluru, India.

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